As the weather warms up and the school year winds down, Memorial Day often signals the unofficial start of summer—filled with picnics, barbecues, and family fun. But this day is rooted in something much deeper: a time to honor the men and women who gave their lives while serving in the United States Armed Forces.
This year, why not give Memorial Day more meaning in your home? With just a little intention, we can help kids connect with the heart of patriotism and appreciation—while still enjoying a joyful day together.
Turn Curiosity into Gratitude: Teach the Why
Start by simply explaining the purpose of Memorial Day in age-appropriate language. Younger children can grasp the idea that it's a special time to remember those who helped keep our country safe. Older children can dig deeper—perhaps by reading stories of real heroes or visiting a local veteran's memorial.
- Read a children's book like The Wall by Eve Bunting or Twenty-One Steps by Jeff Gottesfeld.
- Watch an educational video about the value and honor of our military.
- Learn about the historic use of poppy flowers for remembrance: READ MORE
- Create a "Thank You Wall" at home where kids can post drawings, flags, or messages of appreciation.
Bring Honor to Your Backyard: Creative Remembrance Activities
Even from home, families can participate in acts of remembrance:
- Decorate with Purpose: Invite your kids to help place small flags along your sidewalk or create patriotic decorations themselves:
- Craft beautiful paper poppies like these: POPPIES
- Make table decor with ease: STAR DECORATIONS
- Pause for the National Moment of Remembrance: At 3 PM local time, take a minute of silence as a family.
- Write Letters or Cards: Send them to active military members or veterans through a local organization.
These gestures don’t need to be grand—they just need to be meaningful.
Reimagine the Picnic Table: Patriotic Foods with a Twist
Family meals are a staple of Memorial Day, and they’re a fun way to bring in themed elements kids will love.
- Star-Spangled Skewers: Alternate strawberries, blueberries, and mini marshmallows for a festive and easy treat.
- Red, White & Blue Nachos: Blue corn chips, Monterey Jack cheese, and chopped red bell pepper.
- Hero Sandwich Bar: Let kids build subs and name them after real-life heroes (and talk about why they were heroes).
- Colorful Pretzel Sticks
Cooking together opens the door for conversations about values like service, sacrifice, and teamwork.
Make Memories with Meaning: Activities for the Whole Family
While it’s great to enjoy the day with outdoor fun and fireworks, adding activities that invite reflection or community spirit can add a layer of meaning to your day off.
- Visit a local veteran’s cemetery or war memorial. Leave flowers or flags.
- Create care packages for military families or a deployed service member.
- Host a backyard “Hero Games” with obstacle courses, teamwork-based activities, and a closing moment of gratitude.
Keep the Conversation Going
Memorial Day can be a powerful starting point to cultivate patriotism and empathy throughout the year. Use this day to begin a tradition—whether it’s lighting a candle, sharing a story, or simply taking a walk to talk about the freedoms we enjoy and the people who’ve helped secure them.
By honoring the past and embracing the present, we teach our children not just how to enjoy the day, but why it matters.
