When we think of supporting kids, it's easy to picture packed bleachers at football games or crowded auditoriums for dance recitals. But what about those quieter, less-attended moments—the robotics competitions, chess tournaments, coding clubs, or even anime drawing sessions? Supporting children isn’t always about what they’re doing; it's about making sure they know someone believes in them while they're doing it.
Why It’s Good for Kids to Be Involved
Participating in extracurricular activities helps kids build essential social skills, learn new talents, and benefit from the guidance of different coaches or teachers. It provides opportunities to form new friendships, face challenges head-on, and experience personal growth as they develop skills and confidence over time.
Show Up and Be Supportive
Being physically present at your child's activities makes a significant impact. Attending their competitions, performances, or events sends a powerful message of belief and validation. Supporting them at home by practicing together, asking thoughtful questions about their experiences, and actively listening as they share their excitement or concerns further reinforces your support.
Teach Commitment and Consistency
Helping children form good habits around consistency, commitment, and bringing their best to each activity is crucial. Ensure they understand the importance of honoring their commitments by consistently attending practices, preparing for events, and approaching each opportunity with dedication and enthusiasm. Teaching these values supports their success in activities and beyond.
Help Them Find Something They Love
Not every child immediately knows what they enjoy or excel at. As parents, it’s important to encourage kids to explore diverse activities proactively. Trying new things, without the pressure of immediate success, helps them discover their unique interests and passions. Don’t settle for letting them sit out—encourage curiosity and exploration.
If a child in your home hasn't found their "thing" yet, check out this list of less-common hobbies. The goal is to get them plugged into a group activity, so keep looking until they find a passion!
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It’s Not About Winning or Being the Star
Success isn't always about trophies or being the standout performer. Every role in an activity or team holds importance. Encourage kids to focus on personal growth rather than just being the champion every time. Not everyone can be the star, and that’s perfectly okay. Emphasize the value of teamwork, bringing energy, offering encouragement to others, and setting a positive tone through their attitude and presence. There are countless ways to contribute meaningfully to a group beyond personal accolades.
A CK staffer shared, "My son went through a Rubik's cube phase. The rest of the family wasn't terribly thrilled to watch the cubing events, but we made a point to sign him up for competitions, and we drove together to them, sitting in the stands to cheer him on. Just supporting his efforts was the important part—not what he was doing or how well he was doing it."
Every child deserves a cheering section, no matter the size of the audience. Your presence, your interest, and your belief in them makes all the difference. So buckle up and be your child's biggest cheerleader—it’s a ride worth taking!
