As we move into the holiday season, it’s a wonderful time to reflect on the qualities that define our lives as followers of Christ. In Galatians 5:22-23, the Apostle Paul reminds us of the fruit of the Spirit: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. These characteristics don’t just shape our personal faith—they are the qualities by which others see Christ in us. “They will know we follow Jesus by our fruit.” Matthew 7:16
This season, let’s explore ways to cultivate the Spirit’s presence in our lives more fully and put His fruit into practice to bless those around us.
Love: Spreading Compassion and Care
This season, let’s embody love by extending compassion to those around us. Love can be expressed through small acts of kindness like baking treats for neighbors, offering to rake leaves or shovel snow, or simply inviting someone who’s alone to share a holiday meal. Think of practical ways to show love to those who may be struggling this season, including writing notes of encouragement or giving thoughtful gifts that show you care. Remember that those who are hurting or grieving often suffer a bit more during the holidays.
Joy: Bringing Cheer to Those Around Us
The holidays are a time of celebration, and sharing joy with others can be as simple as a warm smile, a listening ear, or spending quality time with family and friends. Joy is contagious, and by spreading it through laughter, generosity, and positivity, we can make a lasting impact on those around us. Look for opportunities to bring joy into the lives of those who may be facing tough times and brighten their day with your presence and compassion. Consider taking children to a nursing home to sing carols or pass out homemade cards to some residents who might enjoy a visit.
Peace: Cultivating Calm in the Hustle and Bustle
With the holidays comes a whirlwind of activities, but finding peace amidst the hustle can be a powerful way to honor the season. Set aside time for reflection, embrace moments of quiet, and pause to appreciate the beauty of this time of year. Ask the Lord to help you not get swept up with the rushing and miss the true meaning of the season. Encourage your family to practice gratitude and incorporate spiritual activities as a family such as daily devotionals or Advent traditions. The parents set the tone for a calm and peaceful home.
Patience: Embracing a Spirit of Waiting
The holidays can test our patience, whether in busy stores, long lines, or packed schedules. This season, let’s lean into a spirit of patience, remembering that the heart of the season is about waiting for and welcoming the Christ child. Practicing patience with family, friends, and even strangers can create an atmosphere of calm and understanding, modeling grace to those around us. Be the one who offers a smile to the haggard store clerk or the over-worked postal employee.
Kindness: Extending Generosity to Others
Kindness shines brightly during the holidays, and there are so many ways to extend it to others. Consider doing something kind each day of December, like donating gently used clothes, supporting a local food bank, or creating care packages for people in need. Kindness can be simple yet deeply impactful, reminding us that every act of love, however small, makes a difference. Kindness can also be practiced at home among siblings, offering to help one another with chores, giving up the better seat, or including someone who might feel excluded.
Goodness: Acting with Integrity and Generosity
Goodness goes along with holiness, purity, and righteousness. It often means doing the right thing, even when it’s not easy, and putting the needs of others before our own. Goodness can often be seen in our actions. When we act with integrity and generosity, we create a ripple effect that inspires those around us to do the same.
Faithfulness: Honoring Commitments to Our Loved Ones
As we enter a busy time of year, faithfulness can look like honoring our commitments to family and friends, making time for loved ones, and showing up fully for those who matter. Faithfulness is also about staying true to our values, even when holiday pressures mount. By keeping our promises and prioritizing those close to us, we strengthen bonds that enrich our lives and reflect Christ’s unwavering love.
Gentleness: Nurturing Others with a Gentle Heart
Gentleness is often overlooked, but during the holidays, it can bring comfort to those who feel stressed or weary. Practice gentleness by listening without judgment, offering encouragement, and showing empathy. This quality reminds others that they are valued and supported, creating a safe and nurturing environment in which they can thrive.
Self-Control: Celebrating with Balance and Thoughtfulness
The holidays often bring indulgences, but self-control helps us maintain balance. Practicing self-control may mean being mindful of spending, choosing meaningful gifts, and focusing on intentional celebrations rather than excess. When we approach the season with balance, we honor both ourselves and others, fostering a joyful and thoughtful holiday.
Wrapping Up the Season with Love
Remember, the holiday season is not just about decorations, meals, or gifts. It’s about fostering a sense of belonging, providing consistency, and offering a safe space where every child, family member, and friend feels valued and loved. By practicing the Fruit of the Spirit, we bring light to those around us and show that the love of Christ lives in us. With preparation, understanding, and compassion, we can make this season one of true joy, warmth, and lasting impact.
This December, let’s be intentional in cultivating Christlike character in our homes and communities, shaping the way we celebrate and connect with others. May we reflect the love of Christ to all we meet.