For Brian King, a lifelong Denton County resident and accomplished technology leader, the decision to become a foster and adoptive parent came not only from the heart—but from a search for purpose and the desire to make a difference in a child’s life.
With a Bachelor of Science in Computer Science from the University of North Texas and over 28 years of service in county government, Brian has built a meaningful career in public service. As the Deputy Chief Information Officer for Denton County, his department is responsible for all technology systems across local government offices. But it wasn’t until the isolation brought on by the COVID-19 pandemic that he recognized something was missing.
“Before COVID, I gave more than 100% to my job. I loved my work and the people I worked with,” Brian said. “But during and after COVID, I started to feel isolated. It became clear I needed more in my life.”
That moment of clarity turned into a calling.
Brian’s cousin had adopted two boys just before the pandemic. Once restrictions lifted, they invited Brian on a fishing trip to Galveston. It was there that he truly connected with the boys, seeing not only their challenges but also the joy, progress, and healing they had experienced. He said, "They still had lots of struggles and challenges, but it was so impressive to see where they had come from to where they were at that time." Inspired by that experience, Brian began to consider a similar path to give a child a chance at stability and family.
He began his journey with CK Family Services, guided by the support of his case manager, Gina Hall. After over a year of preparation and anticipation, Brian was introduced to Joshua—a 14-year-old navigating his own path toward healing. “After a weekend visit and then a five-day stay in my home, Joshua was placed with me the very next weekend,” Brian said.
Brian opened his home as a foster parent, offering Joshua the stability, support, and compassion he needed to begin healing. Over time, their bond deepened—and ten months later, they made it official. Brian adopted Joshua, turning their shared journey into a permanent family.
But Brian is the first to admit—foster parenting as a single adult comes with challenges. “I definitely underestimated how much time and energy it would take to foster a 14-year-old on my own. But I’ve been fortunate to have a very supportive workplace, supervisor, and extended family. I have never regretted or second guessed the decision to foster Joshua and ultimately adopt him.” He also encourages others to take training seriously: “Pay attention during training. The instructors speak from experience. I remember thinking, ‘That won’t happen to me.’ But many of the things they warned about did happen.”
Still, Brian’s story is not about obstacles—it’s about purpose, progress, and the power of showing up.
“There have been challenges along the way, but the positives far outweigh them. Joshua is such a blessing to me and my family. It is so exciting to see him grow emotionally and overcome challenges as he begins to find safety and structure in our home.”
